Social Intelligence: Noticing the Details
Crafting strong relationships doesn’t happen by accident, it happens in the tiny moments most people overlook.
To develop rare social intelligence, you don’t have to notice everything; you just have to notice one thing sooner than most.
7 Conversational Cues
There are several cues to pay attention to when talking with people, including:
- The first ten seconds of any conversation, which are like a soundcheck before a show, where you listen for pace, volume, and warmth.
You don’t have to notice everything; you just have to notice one thing sooner than most.
Author's summary: Noticing small details in conversations can indicate rare social intelligence.